Beardomania
Juvenile Dragon
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He's not your kid and if an adult doesn't answer you, you accept that that's how it is. It doesn't make his actions sketchy. You asked him if he even owned a bearded dragon, the answer to which determines nothing. Then, you asked again, saying that he still hasn't told you as if he's dodging. It's not a physical sit-down like the police would have with you type of grilling but it's about as close as you can get on this forum.Well, haven't found you to be extremely impolite.
Not gonna say that everything I do is perfect, in fact, if I said everything I did that was imperfect it would be an incredibly long list.
I also won't say that I haven't been wrong, but I won't say that you have been right on much either.
Maybe sketchy and shady were the wrong wordings, and if they are, that's my fault, and I'll say it right here and now.
As for explaining things, no, maybe he doesn't.
He also doesn't have to, but it'd make more sense if he did.
And for the last thing, coming from a very weird household, I would like to tell you that "grilling" is not the term you're looking for.
"Grilling" is called asking at least 3 times, then being broken down because you didn't answer quick enough.
"Grilling" is called being broken down emotionally by angry people, none of which are here, you neither I have done that.
And, if either of us have, (Or anyone.) then shame on them. (Which I still believe none of us have.)
I'm an extremely honor driven guy, something I'm sure none of you know after this.
Today... could have been better.
But, asking for a second time after not getting a correct answer is just life.
You ever dealt with kids?
Well, lemme tell you something if you haven't.
You don't just ask once, and if they don't answer you, go, "Oh well."
No, you ask a second time.
So, am I "grilling" my child?
Yeah, okay.
Again, I won't tell you that I'm 100% correct, but I will stand by the fact that he should have listed before what his "work" is.
All I asked was if he owned a BD and what his "work" is.
Nothing more, nothing less.
To you, I ask, is that "grilling"?
I have no quarrel nor grudge against either of you.
In fact, I love his idea of the book/database he has planned.
To me, that's absolutely genius.
So, with all that said, good day.
Thanks,
BDD
Anyway, let this be over. The reason this didn't sit well with me is that there is so much misinformation and hearsay out there when it comes to bearded dragons. It's impossible to really figure out what's a myth made from conjecture and what's actually true. There are people advocating lighting situations and feeder diets saying that absolutely nothing less will do, sometimes telling people to throw out expensive equipment and get new ones simply because they think that the way they raised a beardie is the only way. OP didn't think like that. OP came asking for experience from people to find the real truth rather than take what any website writes as gospel. As a scientist, I love that attitude, and his desire to publish his findings was even better. (I have many research ideas as well on figuring out the actual dietary and lighting requirements of bearded dragons that I'll likely never be able to do because I'm not a herpetologist and can't get the funding.) And what he got was an earful from you telling him that he needs to credit people or they'll get angry and that he can't write a book on beardies unless he specifically affirms to you that he owns them, and that he's shady for not offering more info about himself to start. That just sounds so hostile and unhelpful to a real and rare scientific effort. We all have bad days and I get that you didn't mean anything so let this be over.