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Flippin Neighbors

beardielover17

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I live in an apartment complex that has balconies for each apartment. 95% of us own dogs which are let out on the balconies be it to eat, use the bathroom or to sun bathe. With that being said, it will get dirty out there once in a while (heck even if you don't have pets).

Wouldn't the sanitary thing to do be to wipe up and soak up any pee or poo and dispose of it in a garbage bag and to then spray down the soiled spots on the balcony with disinfectant (I choose natural cleaners in case my dog decided to lick the floor), soak it up with paper towel and then rinse it with clean water and then sweep it way off the side of the balcony onto the empty land below to ensure a thorough cleaning?

Apparently my neighbor below me has an issue with it and like a child, left a note on my door in Portuguese threatening to call the health department on me because water is dripping onto her balcony. This woman never told me of any problems she had with us and it's not like this is a repeated offense because it has only happened over the last 2 days because the weather was nice and I wanted to really clean the balcony. To me leaving the balcony to get encrusted with pee and feces is something the health department SHOULD be called for but apparently cleaning is is the wrong thing to do.

I find it not only very childish to automatically threaten to call the health department over something like this considering it's clean water. I also find it childish that she would leave that letter on my door rather than speak to me in person (she knew I was home). I am the type of person that likes to avoid confrontation when all possible so had she knocked on my door when it first bothered her and POLITELY explain the situation, I would be more than happy to have tried to find another way to work things out. But to immediately make threats grinds my gears to put it nicely. Also, and I apologize ahead of time if I offend, but if you live in a country with a different language from what you speak, LEARN IT! This goes for any country. I wouldn't want people overseas to learn my language so I can understand them because it would be my responsibility to learn theirs so we could communicate. I know she speaks English too so why write in Portuguese? I had to go to 5 people to have it translated and no one except my dad who was luckily working in town today translated it for me.

My balcony naturally has a slight angle to it so water will run off a bit especially when it rains. Is this woman going to call the health department on me when it rains because god forbid droplets of water from my balcony ran down and sprinkled on hers? It's impossible for it to have been dog urine that went on her balcony considering my dog only goes on paper behind our central air/heat unit which I did on purpose so nothing ran down to our neighbor.

I swear, people get more irritating by the minute.

My husband wanted to leave a note on their door in Russian saying this: (Edited for language lol)

To Whom it May Concern:
I received a letter from you, unfortunately, the said letter was written in a foreign language that is incomprehensible to me. As far as I know, we live in America and should communicate in the English language. If you have some sort of problems, it's best to discuss them, instead of making threats. You know where I live, please come by so that we can discuss this situation.

Thanks (insert not nice word here)
 

beardielover17

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I've been dying to go downstairs to talk with her but I know I should wait for my husband because of how she decided to go about things has ELIMINATED my temper fuse and I am about to detonate and at least my husband can take over if I start to act on my true emotions! 5 o' clock can't come soon enough...I would really love what this woman has to say for herself.
 

crypticdragons

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Its just one of the problems that comes with living in an apartment. Hell my landlord basically told me that no one can know I have reptiles cause it would cause problems.

Best to talk to the complex manager and not directly to the idiot living below you
 

beardielover17

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She apparently called my super before even confronting me about things. My super warned me about her and said to not listen to this woman because even the police hate her (yes, she's called the cops on all the people in the apartment complex before). I walked down and with every bit of niceness I had left knocked on her door and let her have it. Ever heard the term,"kill them with kindness"? Oh I killed her and then some. She had the gaul to try to accuse me of things TWO RENTERS BEFORE ME did do her house. Despite her nasty attitude I remained calm and laid down the law with her. Needless to say, I don' t think she will be bothering us anymore. I loved proving her wrong with her accusations because before I went to her, I gathered all the evidence I needed to prove she was #$%^&U*

At the end of the day I'm still a little annoyed by the stupidity of it all but I feel good knowing that I put her in her place without having to get nasty because had she got me any more mad, the roaches are just a click away ;D
 

JustaV

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I completely understand!!! I live on the third floor of an apartment...my husband ended up putting outdoor indoor carpet on the patio that can be clean easily for poop accidents and replaced for bad pee accidents....( when we replace it we do it during the rain and scrub the wood before laying down the new piece).
 

SerenityAppeals

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Sorry you had to go through all this - it's times like that that remind me why my Fiancee and I bought a house in January --- I couldn't stand stupid inconsiderate neighbors so close to my home and my pets anymore.
 

beardielover17

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Unfortunately buying a house just isn't in the cards right now. She is the only neighbor we don't like out of everyone.
 

staylor

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I hate neighbors like that. Keep killing her with kindness, thats what I do when I don't like someone and it makes me laugh to see them get mad when I say hi or wave to them.

Reasons like that is why we moved into a rental house. I can't stand living that close to people for that reason. It took a year of looking before we found a house the same price as an apartment but so glad we kept looking.
 

beardielover17

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Renting a house is definitely something we have been looking into. My best friend and her fiance want to buy a 2 family and rent the other half out. I don't know when that will happen or else I'd jump on the offer.
 

sara

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So sorry you had to go through that!! Thank goodness we live out in the boonies or I'd be in the nut house. I HATE neighbors. I grew up next to a lady who was very nosy and always causing problems one way or another. She had mental problems due to an accident at work but was always running to look out to see who pulled up at our houseor what we were doing and causing problems even if it was imaginary due to her accident. I was never so glad for moving away from her.
 

beardielover17

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She's definitely somethin else. This woman is the same way but has no legit mental illness to blame it on. There's a bit more to the story that I can't post but I'm not worrying too much because in a couple days we will be going about our business as usual and she is going to hate it.
 

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