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A little bit temperamental?

Allthingsterrarium

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Hey everybody! I just got my bearded dragon, Odahviing, a couple days ago and I already have a few issues with him/her. I guess it's to be expected since I'm a new beardie keeper and he's my first but I still have a couple questions despite all my research and that has to do with a small behavior problem he has. When I got him from Petco they told me that he's a little bit mean and might try to bite me. I figured that shouldn't be a big deal since I know some can be more temperamental than others at first and that he's probably a bit stressed and nervous. Who wouldn't be moving into a new home? I would especially expect a small one to be nippy and flighty as even large adults have to avoid dingoes, pythons, monitor lizards, eagles and hawks in their native Australia but here's the thing, He's a juvenile about 8 inches long and the lizards at Petco seem well socialized. I've met bearded dragons much younger and tinier that were calm to sit in your hand and even excited to see you and by now he should be pretty used to humans. It gets even stranger. When I was about to purchase him I asked if I could hold him real quick just to judge his character for future and when I did he seemed a bit unsure of himself but didn't mind to much, letting me pet him without issue. When I got him home he let me pick him up out of the box and put him into his habitat where he was really enthusiastic and even ran up curiously to look at my family and I as we watched him. In addition I took him out later that night and even though he opened his mouth for a second and hissed softly he let me pick him up and we just calmly sat together for about 5 minutes, he rested in my hand and looked very happy and sat on my leg all relaxed almost the whole time. I did take note that he would back away and open his mouth if I put my finger near his face so I just figured "okay, he doesn't like that. He'll become more social with time." He has a lot of energy, he ate the day I got him and readily accepts and chases the crickets I put in there, even now I've gotten him to take small pieces of greens, sweet potato and mango from my hand so he knows I bring him food and likes it when I do. It was great for a day or two after this as he let me take him out more but the final time I took him out he became real skittish. Now it's like he's a different lizard or at least has mood swings. He'll open his mouth and show his teeth even if my hand is a foot away and he will try to bite me and even jump to do so and he'll run from me. He hisses a lot and puffs out his throat so he must be scared or angry. Believe me, I don't mind bites in the slightest as I deal with all kinds of animals, besides, what could he do at his size? But if I want him to be a social and tame lizard for my family and friends I don't want that to become a habit so I'm trying to avoid a bite to begin with. Bearded dragons are curious and gentle by nature but even still I know some are more crabby than others and it takes a while to become as tame as a dog but I have to ask what gives? The way he was acting before I thought he trusted me and saw me as a friend. I've tried offering food by hand when he gives his aggressive poses and strike at it and eat it regardless so you would think he knows I'm giving him food and trying to take care of him but at this rate (he can already bite mealworms in half) it will be hard to do upkeep and it's discouraging to think he might never mellow out the way he's currently acting. It's like in his mind I'm just a very friendly dingo that will eventually just eat him anyway :)
 

Hdrydr31

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Yes some can be a bit on the fiesty side but for the most part they are pretty docile critters... What I think is going on is what most of us call "relocating/rehoming stress" Since you've only had him a few days it just may take him a bit to settle in. Just go slow and give him some time to adjust to his new home, new owners. Some people say that putting a shirt that you've worn in with him can help him get used to your scent. Try holding him when he's sleepy..
Even though he can bite a mealworm in half it is advised not to feed them because their shells are high in chitlin which is very hard for them to digest and some have become impacted.
Make sure your set up is good and give him plenty of places to hide to feel comfortable..
 

Allthingsterrarium

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Great idea! I'll put my shirt in there later. He does seem more relaxed when he's having some down time. And thanks for letting me know about the mealworms. I'll stick to crickets and dubias and offer mealworms as occasional, very sparing treats. :)
 

Hdrydr31

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Great idea! I'll put my shirt in there later. He does seem more relaxed when he's having some down time. And thanks for letting me know about the mealworms. I'll stick to crickets and dubias and offer mealworms as occasional, very sparing treats. :)
Once he's bigger superworms will be a good food option as well.
 

PatsyB

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The biggest thing to do is have patience and don't give up. When I bought Luci from Petco he was the same way, very sweet and let me hold him and then once he got comfortable in his new home he did a 180. Hissing, trying to bite, not wanting to be held. It was MONTHS of this and I wanted to give up a few times but I didn't. I did everything that everyone recommended, the shirt in the tank, putting veggies in the mouth when he opened his mouth, not putting my hand over his head to pick him up but scooping him up from the front. The one thing I'm convinced that worked was every night right before his lights went out when he had sleepy eyes, I sat next to his tank and talked to him him and petted him. Eventually I starting picking him up and holding him in his tank for 5 minutes then working my way up to more time. Eventually I was able to get him out and hold him. He's still pretty wild 2+ years later. He runs his tank all day and kinda freaks out when I pick him up and he doesn't always want to be held, he's my free spirit. Once I accepted this was his personality, I realized he is a sweetheart in his own way. As long as he doesn't hiss or try to bite me we are good.
 

Hdrydr31

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The biggest thing to do is have patience and don't give up. When I bought Luci from Petco he was the same way, very sweet and let me hold him and then once he got comfortable in his new home he did a 180. Hissing, trying to bite, not wanting to be held. It was MONTHS of this and I wanted to give up a few times but I didn't. I did everything that everyone recommended, the shirt in the tank, putting veggies in the mouth when he opened his mouth, not putting my hand over his head to pick him up but scooping him up from the front. The one thing I'm convinced that worked was every night right before his lights went out when he had sleepy eyes, I sat next to his tank and talked to him him and petted him. Eventually I starting picking him up and holding him in his tank for 5 minutes then working my way up to more time. Eventually I was able to get him out and hold him. He's still pretty wild 2+ years later. He runs his tank all day and kinda freaks out when I pick him up and he doesn't always want to be held, he's my free spirit. Once I accepted this was his personality, I realized he is a sweetheart in his own way. As long as he doesn't hiss or try to bite me we are good.

Wow I guess I got lucky or maybe it's because I have a girl, but Izzy has loved being handled from the very beginning, she was 30 grams, she would climb herself up against my neck or on my chest and just watch what was going on around her...I know when I brought her home it was cold inside because of the A/C so I would have the heating pad by me and she would squirm under it with just her head poking out lol.. to this day she loves to be on my chest every night she pokes her head up over the tank edge staring me down until I go get her, then off to sleep on me for the night.
 

Allthingsterrarium

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The biggest thing to do is have patience and don't give up. When I bought Luci from Petco he was the same way, very sweet and let me hold him and then once he got comfortable in his new home he did a 180. Hissing, trying to bite, not wanting to be held. It was MONTHS of this and I wanted to give up a few times but I didn't. I did everything that everyone recommended, the shirt in the tank, putting veggies in the mouth when he opened his mouth, not putting my hand over his head to pick him up but scooping him up from the front. The one thing I'm convinced that worked was every night right before his lights went out when he had sleepy eyes, I sat next to his tank and talked to him him and petted him. Eventually I starting picking him up and holding him in his tank for 5 minutes then working my way up to more time. Eventually I was able to get him out and hold him. He's still pretty wild 2+ years later. He runs his tank all day and kinda freaks out when I pick him up and he doesn't always want to be held, he's my free spirit. Once I accepted this was his personality, I realized he is a sweetheart in his own way. As long as he doesn't hiss or try to bite me we are good.

I've been doing that sort of thing too! I even rubbed my self really hard with a tissue to get my scent all over it and then put he tissue under the hammock where he sleeps. I've been sitting with him and I've picked him up here and there and even scooted my hand closer to him every 10 seconds before getting close enough to pet his tail and work my way up. I went the whole day today without a completely open mouth or serious defensive displays. I don't think he minds me too much anymore and I'm going to continue to work with him :)
 

Hdrydr31

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Yep that's what you gotta do just keep at it and that bond will be made... hang in there it's working and since they live such a long life it's worth the effort.
 

Valiant

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Don't give up. Mine is the same way. He's two months old. I've had him for a month now and he still hisses, bites, and runs away from me when I go to pick him up. He will eat out of my hand "I'm not eating this cause I like you or anything. This is mine. Now more worms human!" He's slowly getting better but it takes time. Mornings are the best time for us as he is sleepy and will relax when I hold him. Good luck! :)
 

Allthingsterrarium

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Don't give up. Mine is the same way. He's two months old. I've had him for a month now and he still hisses, bites, and runs away from me when I go to pick him up. He will eat out of my hand "I'm not eating this cause I like you or anything. This is mine. Now more worms human!" He's slowly getting better but it takes time. Mornings are the best time for us as he is sleepy and will relax when I hold him. Good luck! :)

Thanks Valiant! I'm trying to interact more with him when he's relaxed.
 

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